
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. ~Eleanor Roosevelt
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. ~Eleanor Roosevelt
She believed she could and so she did.
Do what works for you.
Tell us a little about yourself and your background?Ā
I am a mom to two awesome little girls. I did not graduate college, as I really loved my job in the restaurant industry. I have been writing since I was in grade school, and had won a few writing contests, but always felt it was more of a hobby than a career. I finally took a chance to put my writing out there for the world and it was extremely liberating! I am now trying to fully commit to seeing if I can make turn my love of writing into my dream job.Ā
How do you make time to write?Ā
I write during bath time! The kids are happy and no one can grab my glass of wine. Other than that it’s just stealing time where I can.Ā
Do you believe in writerās block?Ā
1000%Ā
Tell us a bit about the genre you write and why you love it.
I just published my first book a picture book, and am working on publishing a collection of fairy tale graphic novels. I am also working on a YA fairy tale. Fairy tales/fantasy are my jam, as that is what made me fall in love with reading as a child, though eventually I would love to write a good who-dun-it mystery.Ā
How are you publishing your recent book and why?Ā
Self publishing! I didn’t have the patience for traditional publishing.Ā
Are you an Introvert or Extrovert? How does this affect your work?Ā
I am an introverted extrovert. I like the idea of socializing and being the “life of the party”, but really deep in my soul I want seclusion and sweat pants.Ā
What is your favorite motivational phrase?Ā
The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, the second best time is today.Ā
What advice would you give to aspiring writers?Ā
If you love your writing someone else will too.Ā
Where can readers find you on the World Wide Web?Ā
My website! www.KPPages.comĀ
Do you have an excerpt youād like to share with us?Ā
One monster was plenty! This many were scary.
The monsters as well seemed especially wary.
The silence was so loud you could hear a dropped pin, the quiet dragged on with no sight of an end.
They both were afraid what the other may do, so they stayed still until someone sneezed, ACHOO!
One monster giggled and another guffawed, all their cold feelings were thoroughly thawed.Ā
So I wasn’t able to squeeze in a fellow author, today, so I thought I’d interview myself ahead of Valley Con which begins tomorrow in Fargo, ND.Ā
How do I make time to write?Ā
I’m pretty lucky – I’m almost a full-time writer, meaning it’s my day job.Ā Ā I get up in the morning, eat breakfast and head to write.Ā I have an office in our guest-room where I write, blog, e-mail, go on Zoom Calls, Stream on Streamyard and craft on Saturdays.Ā Ā I leave the office between 4 and 5 weekdays.Ā Ā That’s not to say I don’t sneak writing in at other times, cuz I do.Ā Ā I don’t write full-time June-August when I’m helping my husband with his crop-dusting business.Ā I take it easy the month of December because I’ve usually finished NaNoWriMo and also the publishing industry as a whole seems to be taking a break.Ā
Do I believe in Writer’s Block?Ā
Yes, but not in the sense there is this great muse that won’t give me words.Ā I think writer’s block is a manifestation of stress in your personal life or an indication there’s a problem with the story that needs to be fixed.Ā Ā When I have too much going on, I will cut back on my word count goal for the week and manage self-care along with refilling my creative well.Ā I find small breaks are helpful in maintaining momentum.Ā If I step away from a project for more than a week, I have a very hard time getting back into story. So, I find if I at least open the page and stare at it or edit or write a few lines, I don’t lose my place, but I try not to pressure myself to write.Ā
How am I publishing my recent book and why?
Currently my back-list and my most recent work, “Alchemists of Archangel” are published with Book Boutiques.Ā They are a small distributor that takes care of the copy-editing/line editing, provides a cover, does the formatting and distributes my book on digital platforms.Ā Ā This removes a lot of components about self-publishing that scare me.Ā Ā While they don’t do developmental editing, that was unnecessary when I released my back-list as those books were already edited.Ā Ā I found editors for my two recent novels in the “Archangel Revolution” series to help fix issues with them so the editing was already completed.Ā Ā
My current manuscript – “The Widow Spy” (this poor ms. has gone through about ten title changes), is being shopped around.Ā I’m hoping to get in traditionally published but I fear it may be too short for NY and will happily settle for a larger digital press.Ā Ā I like small presses, but I really want more exposure.Ā I may Self-Publish it if I have a hard time finding a home, but I still have concerns about doing Indie publishing correctly.Ā
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What is my favorite motivational phrase?Ā
“Just Do It!”Ā
It’s so cliche’ but when it comes to writing, you have to put butt in chair and muddle through until you reach the end.Ā Ā Ā
What advice would I give aspiring writers?Ā
There’s so much, but I think most important is find your tribe of writers.Ā Ā There are so many out there and the connections can be invaluable.Ā I’ve found that my writing friends are supportive when you need to be lifted, ground you when you are floating away and commiserate with you through troubles.Ā It’s no surprise that many have become life-long friends.Ā Ā
I hope you found this interesting and feel free to ask questions below.Ā I’ll be happy to answer them.Ā If you’d like to read some excerpts of my work feel free to hop over to my Books page.Ā Ā You can find my social links on the About Tina page.
Please welcome Alexander Vayle to the Clog Blog.Ā Alexander and I are both members of The Moorhead Friends Writing Group.Ā So Alexander, tell us a little about yourself and your background?Ā
I’m a father of four, a former paramedic, and a registered nurse. I grew up in the country and I believe the quiet and calm out there helped nurture my imagination. I wrote my first story in elementary and writing has been a hobby of mine off and on ever since. A few years ago I found an excellent writing group and really buckled down to produce some work. Since then I have published my first book, a collection of Supernatural suspense titled “Among the Stray”, and I have a novel in the works.Ā
How do you make time to write?Ā
Early morning has always been my best for clarity and creativity. I try to get up around 5am so I can get in an hour or two of writing before the rest of the house starts waking up.Ā
Do you believe in writerās block?Ā
I haven’t found it yet. If get stuck on something I simply change gears, free-write, whatever it takes. I don’t believe in beating my head against a story until it starts to work. I’ll think about my book or other stories at night, as I’m falling asleep, so I usually have pile of ideas ready to go by the time I sit down in front of a keyboard.Ā
Tell us a bit about the genre you write and why you love it.
Supernatural suspense, drama, Syfy, Murder mystery. It’s hard to pin down a genre I enjoy the most. As long as the characters are real and story draws out emotion from the reader, I’m happy.Ā
How are you publishing your recent book and why?Ā
My first book was published traditionally through All Things That Matter Press. If I can, I will always go traditional. The amount of advertising and the work they have done getting my book out is something I simply wouldn’t have time for on my own. Working with professionals also gave me a better grasp of how the industry works.Ā
Are you an Introvert or Extrovert? How does this affect your work?Ā
Introvert. I’m comfortable by myself and I always have been. I think it comes from growing up in the country where we didn’t have a lot of neighbors. My sister and I made up a lot of stories to entertain ourselves and it became a big part of who I am.Ā
What is your favorite motivational phrase?Ā
Hard to pick a favorite, but one that I’ve always liked is:
“If it doesn’t challenge you it doesn’t change you.”
Getting up early is not always easy. Trying to find time to edit other people’s writing and my own and come up with new material isn’t easy either. But it certainly is satisfying when I lean back and look at what I’ve accomplished.Ā
What advice would you give to aspiring writers?Ā
FIND. A. WRITING. GROUP. Seriously, it made all the difference for me. Working on your own is fine, but getting feedback from other people takes writing to a whole new level. I think some people feel like their work is not good enough to be reviewed by their peers, and that hesitancy is what stops their work from becoming as good as it can be. I’ve had my writing reviewed by a lot of other writers and most of them have been very gracious with constructive criticism and compliments. Writers, in my experience, love to help other writers.Ā
Where can readers find you on the World Wide Web?
@Alexandervayle on Twitter
email me at Alexandervayle@gmail.com, check out “Among the Stray” on Amazon, booksamillion, and basically any site where books are sold.
For those who prefer brick and mortar you can find “Among the Stray” at any of the Ferguson Book Store locations, Zambroz in Fargo, or at the Fargo Public Library.Ā
Do you have an excerpt youād like to share with us?Ā
You bet! Here’s a few lines out of Back From Where You Came, the final story in “Among the Stray”Ā
“Getting in the house was the easy part. The streetlight on their block was out. The back door, the one going out to the detached garage, wasn’t locked. It seemed like … like everything was set up just for me that night. I walked right in. Little mud room off the kitchen. Kicked off my shoes so I be quiet. I even set them on the rug so I wouldn’t get the floor dirty. Imagine that, huh? There to shoot somebody and I didn’t want to get the floor dirty. Habits, I guess.”Ā
Christ came that we might have life and have it abundantly. John 10:10
The Farmer Next Door – The Art of Writing Show touring galleries in ND
Tell us a little about yourself and your background?
I’m a fantasy romance author living in the Pacific Northwest of the US. I’ve lived all over the country and even spent a year abroad as a kid. I love to travel and see new places and meet new people. Traveling is a little harder now that I have kids, though they are pretty adventurous too. One of the things Iām most exciting to get back to in 2022 is traveling again.
As for my journey to becoming a writer, Iām what some might consider a late bloomer. As a child I wasnāt motivated to learn to read because with picture books I could always make up a story that interested me as much as the “official” one. When I was eight my mom started reading me chapters books before bed and that’s when I really fell in love with the magic of the written word, and was motivated to learn to read myself. Similarly I’ve always been drawn to story telling, but didn’t really start writing stories until I took a creative writing class in college and really felt the magic in that creative process. It was a long journey from those first classes to my first published book twenty years later.
How do you make time to write?
As a mom with three school aged children, I’m used to fitting writing in around school schedules and other kid activities. I’ve written a lot of words sitting on the sidelines of dance class or kiddy soccer. That said, this past year has been a whole new level of challenge in terms of time management. My kids have only recently returned to in-person school and we are all adjusting to the new schedule. One thing I’m really looking forward to is writing in coffee shops again.
Do you believe in writerās block?
I certainly believe in burn out, and other obstacles to the creative process. Art of any kind takes a certain amount of creative energy, and there are certainly circumstances in a writer’s life that can make it difficult to refill the well.
What genre are your books and what draws you to this genre?
I write fantasy romance novels, because ultimately I want to write the books I most want to read. I’ve always been drawn to the wonder and possibilities of fantasy novels, but I also crave the optimism and emotional resonance of a good romance. With fantasy romance I feel like I have the best of both worlds.
How did you come up with the idea for your series, Hands of Destin?
I spent a long time world building and playing around with a magic system where everyone has a touch of talent, so much so that the idea of magic doesn’t even really exist. I wanted to explore the lives of ordinary people in an extraordinary world. I’m a character first writer, so I really established the friend group that is at the core of the Hands of Destin series before diving into any individual book. I’m a huge fan of found family stories and “buddy novels” as they are sometimes called in romance circles, where a series depends on moving from one couple to another in a friend or family group.
Some my character choices were very deliberate, but my writing is also subject to the whims of the muse. I feel like Madi (the heroine from Deadly Courtship, book two in the series) introduced herself fully formed while I was in the shower one day. And don’t ask me why all the best ideas strike in the shower, but it is surprisingly common!
I see you are Traditionally Published, why was this path right for you?
I’m a perfectionist and a tinkerer who can always see new ways to improve my work, so external deadlines and expectations are really helpful to my writing process. As a new writer, I also really wanted to focus on the writing, without having to account for all the other moving pieces that go into creating a book. I can imagine self-publishing eventually, but for now I really enjoy the partnership I have with my publisher.
How did you deal with Rejection Letters if you received any?
My personal philosophy is that you miss all of the chances you don’t take, so it is important to not let the fear of failure hold you back. Rejection and criticism are part of the business of writing. I also believe that fiction is a collaboration between the writer and the reader, which means that my stories arenāt always going to land the way I intend it to land. Understanding this makes it easier to have the thick skin needed for this business.
What advice would you give to aspiring writers?
Write the book you’ve always wanted to read, for two reasons. One: if the idea excites you, then you can bet there are readers out there hungry for the same thing. Two: you are going to be reading your work over and over and over, until there are times when you hate it. If the story doesn’t grab you on some deep level, pushing through those rough patches is going to be that much harder.
Where can readers find you on the World Wide Web?
Website: http://www.jayceejarvis.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AuthorJayceeJarvis/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/JayceeJarvis
Bookbub: https://www.bookbub.com/profile/jaycee-jarvis
Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/18092674.Jaycee_Jarvis
Do you have an excerpt youād like to share with us?
Iāll share the moment before Terin and Aureliaās first kiss in Crowning CourtshipāI think this scene captures some of the tensions of their charade, as well as Aureliaās inner struggle against their mutual attraction.
Terin chuckled. āCould you be more perfect?ā
His toes found hers under the water and his foot rubbed Aureliaās leg in a subtle caress that filled her with impossible longings.
The smile dropped off her face, as she was reminded of exactly why she was no prize. She looked away, lacking the will to move her foot out of reach. āHardly perfect.ā
His scooted closer, his face serious. āPerfect for me.ā
Aureliaās heart fluttered. He meant she was perfect for his scheme, perfect for his deception, and yet she yearned to take him at his word. To believe that this time, just once, she was enough.
She canted toward him, her breath shallow and her lips parted.
Desire flared in his eyes, visible even in the low light. Would he kiss her? Should she kiss him?
With a groan he pushed away from her. He dropped his head back on the edge of the pool with a loud thump.
She flinched, the hollow thud reawakening the anxiety she had felt on entering the room. Her head flared with a sympathy pain.
He drummed the back of his head against the rock while muttering angrily.
āWhatās wrong?ā She had never seen him take on so.
āI promised to be good,ā he growled, his face still turned up toward the ceiling, though at least heād stopped banging his head.
Her brow knit. āHave you done something bad?ā
He tilted his head to look at her. The heat and longing in his gaze seared right to her core. āI want, rather desperately, to kiss you, but I promised I would behave. That I would wait for you. Wait for your invitation before touching you, and only do what you want me to do. Do you want me to kiss you?ā
āNow? Here?ā Her eyes darted around the glittering chamber. While they were alone, the room was hardly private.
āEver.ā
He was so beautiful it was almost painful. Of course she wanted this man. How could she not? It was time she be honest with them both. With a feeling like she was tossing her fate to the current, she met his gaze square on. āYes, Terin, I do.ā
Tell us a little about yourself and your background?
Iām a (mostly retired) CPA who now lives on a sailboat in the Caribbean and writes romance novels. Iām a Canadian, and previously lived there all my life, mostly outside Toronto, but for 17 memorable and cold years in Winnipeg, which is where you wind up if you go north of North Dakota.
My husband is the sailor, and he suggested we try the cruising lifestyle. The carrot for me was time to write. So I closed my accounting business, and we headed south. Iāve learned a lot about living on a boat.
My first two published books were hockey romances with Harlequin Heartwarming in 2018. I have five books being published in 2021, one in 2022, and a short story in a holiday anthology in November.
So for me, this has been an awesome change in lifestyle.
What genre are your books and what draws you to this genre?
I write contemporary romance. I do not have the imagination for paranormal or the patience for research for historical – though I enjoy reading those who do. Iāve always written stories in my head, and no matter what I start out thinking Iāll write, there always end up being two people falling in love. I think the draw might be that incredible feeling when those characters find their HEA.
What are your current projects?
I signed contracts for six books in 2020 and Iām just about done edits on the last one now. One was out in February, one in April, one in June, July, September and then January. Iāve submitted a proposal to Harlequin Heartwarming for three more books in the Cupidās Crossing series. Iām fairly optimistic about the chances I have there.
The non-Harlequin I released in April was part of Sarina Bowenās World of the True North, featuring two college hockey players. Several people have asked for Cooperās story (MMCās friend) so Iām working on that, considering self publishing, and also a short story for the Christmas anthology featuring the FMCās roommate Penny.
Beyond that, I have about 20 stories battling for room in my brain, and I need to figure out which one to work on next!
Do you outline a plot or do you prefer to see where an idea takes you?
I do a kind of hybrid. I start with the idea, and let it lead me, but my brain normally gets ahead of my hands, so Iāll do a plot outline or synopsis so that I donāt forget what Iāve thought of. For proposals, they require a synopsis, so Iāve learned to get the story plot set down even if I canāt get much of the story itself written. But I have friends who plot out chapter by chapter, and I cannot even fathom that. My first draft is just one big thing, and I donāt break it down into chapters until Iāve gone through it several times.
How did you deal with Rejection Letters if you received any?
Are you a writer if you havenāt had a rejection?
I didnāt start querying, since I came into this a little differently, until after Iād been published. So after I work through the hurt feelings, resign myself to never being accepted by an agent or publisher again, sharing with my writing group (rejections are responded to with pics of hot men and women, and sometimes cute dogs) I remember that I have books out there, and I will again, if Iām willing to do the work. And since I donāt have an agent, Iām open to consider less traditional routes. Iām more aware of the fact that traditional publishing does have issues and limitations for writers, and Iām seriously considering self publishing.
Which means I can then look at dismal sales records to keep my ego in check.
You are Traditionally published without an agent, how did that come about?
Someone I knew wrote for Harlequin Romance. She seemed a normal person, but she was doing this. Writing, what I wanted to do! She would often post on social media about opportunities Harlequin had, including the annual So You Think You Can Write contest. I tried a couple of those, joined the forums to talk to other writers and writer wannabes. In 2016, I entered a Blitz Harlequin had for their Heartwarming line. My first chapter and synopsis led to a full request, which led to revisions, which led to āthe callā and a two book deal, with of course, more revisions.
I really had no idea about the usual querying process at that time. Part of that was because I had so many ideas in my head, and not enough time to get them written that I didnāt have a complete manuscript, let alone a polished one. The Blitz meant that I had one project that had merit and I could focus on that.
I would still like to get an agent, because of writing opportunities that only exist for writers who have an agent. But mostly, Iād love to have someone look at all these ideas I have and say this is the one you should do. And then this one. Because focus is my problem.
Since I was published with Harlequin, I have an editor, for whom all things Harlequin feed. Iāve got two Love Inspired Suspense titles coming out under the pen name Anne Galbraith this year, and that happened because I could approach my editor about an idea.
And Iām now more aware that there are publishers you can approach without an agent. Iām working on some ideas for that now.
Why was Traditional Publishing right for you vs. Self-Publishing?
A big part of that was because I knew nothing about self publishing. I still know very little, but I have a better idea of where to find the knowledge I need. It will require a big investment of time and some financial resources, but Iām considering it for a future option.
What I liked about traditional publishing was first, the validation. Someone, a professional in publishing, was willing to pay me money for something I wrote. As well, since I knew so little, I didnāt have to worry about the areas I was ignorant of, like covers and formatting. Harlequin especially, puts your books in hands because of the publisher, so it was an opportunity to get my writing out there, which I, with so little marketing knowledge and talent couldnāt do.
And, as I mentioned before, I needed the focus. Someone else said, yes, that story. Finish it, because I want to read it. That was a big help. And the first edits I received? Were like getting a free class in writing craft. So much that I hadnāt thought of.
What advice would you give to aspiring writers?
Obviously, write. A lot. You keep getting better.
Also, read. Iāve always been a voracious reader, and from that Iāve learned the basic arc of a story without really working through from a how to book. As well, youāll find comps, and learn whatās popular and not in your genre. There are books out there that can help you refine your writing skills, or marketing skills or whatever youāre needing.
Find people. I found a great group when I did #RevPit on twitter. We share opportunities and information on agents and publishers. We critique for each other, cheer-lead, and in case of Rās, post pictures of hot people to inspire and console. Writing is a solitary thing, so even if you donāt want to share your work, sharing your experiences with someone whoās been there helps.
Be willing to risk. Putting your work out there is a risk. Getting rejections hurts. But try something new, like sending something to a publisher without using an agent. Enter a contest like #PitMad or #RevPit, and see what happens.
Finally, persevere. Itās not going to be easy. There are going to be rejections that make you want to curl up in a hole and never come out. Even if you get published, there will be hurtful reviews and one star ratings. But if you want to get your stories out into the world and find the readers that are going to say they love your characters, you have to pick yourself up and try again.
Where can readers find you on the World Wide Web?
www.kimfindlay.ca is my website. On facebook, KimFindlayAuthor. My twitter ID is @missheyer74, and on Instagram you can see pretty pictures of the Caribbean and my dog at authorkimfindlay.
Do you have an excerpt youād like to share with us?
Hereās an excerpt from A Valentineās Proposal, which came out in February. Itās the first book in the Cupidās Crossing series. Nelson and Mariah are fake dating, for reasons, and sheās suggested they practice kissing in private so theyāre able to make a convincing show in public.
Nelson looked at Mariah, her cheeks slightly pink, her gaze on her notebook (had she actually researched bad kissing?) and her teeth biting her bottom lip. Maybe it was all this talk of kissing, but right now, he wanted to kiss Mariah.
Not theoretical, pretty woman, kissing would be great, but kissing the woman sitting there, the one trying to make kissing an item on her list, something they could practice in order to demonstrate to people that they were falling for each other.
Maybe some people kissed like that. But Nelson never had. He didnāt kiss for anyone but himself and the woman he was interested in. He wanted to kiss Mariah but kiss her so that she wanted to kiss him again, not to impress anyone else or critique his technique.
He was going to make her love his kisses.
Being overeager was something that would be on the bad kissing list, so Nelson shrugged.
āOkay, then. Letās do it.ā He patted the couch beside him.
He watched Mariah. He saw her swallow. Her teeth were scraping her lip now. She set her computer and notebooks down on the floor beside her chair.
āI guess we should go ahead and get this taken care of.ā
Was she nervous? She totally was.
āMark it off your list.ā
She narrowed her eyes, looking like she suspected something. He smiled back at her.
āCome on. No time like the present. Then I can get back to the game.ā
Her shoulders snapped back, and her teeth were no longer worrying her lip. He held back a grin. Unless he mistook the expression on her face, she was determined that he wasnāt going to shrug off this kiss and turn on the TV.
Good. They were on the same page about this.
She stood and crossed to the couch, dropping on the cushion beside him. He watched the expressions swirling over her face. She was staring at his lips, and leaned forward, starting to pucker. He could almost read the checklist in her mind.
Unh uh. Kissing wasnāt a checklist.
He put a hand on her cheek, soft under his palm, and kept her at a distance.
āHold on, Mariah. You all but accused me of being a bad kisser. I canāt have that. Weāre going to do this right.ā
Her brow creased. āWhat do you mean?ā
His thumb brushed over her cheek. She blinked. His other hand brushed her arm, fingers running up and down from shoulder to wrist and back. Her gaze followed his hand, her expression confused.
His fingers slid up her shoulder, across to her neck, gently stroking. He felt her soften under his touch. Soon he had both hands cradling her face. She drew in a breath, watching him intently. He caressed her bottom lip with one thumb, and her mouth parted.
Bingo.
He leaned forward and pressed a gentle kiss to her forehead. Her skin was warm and smooth under his lips. Her perfume tickled his nose, and he could hear her breathing. He felt his own speed up. Mariahās eyes fluttered closed as his lips traced a path down her nose, across her cheek, to one corner of the delectable lips.
She sighed, relaxing fully into his hold.
Then he touched her lips with his, softly. He pulled away, just enough to catch his breath, and she moved closer, seeking more.
He pressed forward again, brushing his lips against hers, back and forth, as she pushed closer to him. His hands slid into her hair, and hers moved up his chest, gripping his sweater.
Now he increased the pressure, feeling the texture of her lips, the brush of her breath, the slight moan that escaped her.
Or maybe that was him. Because kissing Mariah was a pleasure heād have hated to miss.